心靈雞湯：幸福路上的十道坎

1. Our miserable, detestable, deplorable jobs 1. 可憐可憎可悲的工作

If you love your job, great news. If youre like the other 95% of the population, then it sucks. Our jobs, although we may only be there for 40 hours a week, can feel like a life without parole prison sentence. Like with prison, we feel trapped, hopeless, and doomed to a life we dont want. 假如你熱愛(ài)你的工作，那么恭喜你。如果你和95%的人們一樣，那么糟透了。我們或許一周只花40個(gè)小時(shí)工作，但感覺(jué)上卻像是被判了無(wú)期徒刑。就像蹲監(jiān)獄一樣，我們覺(jué)得受束縛，絕望，注定要過(guò)一輩子我們不想要的生活。

2. Family stress 2. 家庭壓力

Having children is a true blessing and is the most wonderful thing in the world, but can also be and usually is the cause of an enormous amount of stress. Kidnapping, pedophiles, traffic accidents, injuries, and home invasions are all major concerns for any parent, but its the whining, disrespectful behavior, tantrums, hitting, and lack of sleep that really gets to us. 擁有孩子是真正的恩典，是世界上最美好的事情，但同時(shí)也可能成為并且通常是源源不斷地壓力的根源。綁架，戀童癖者，交通事故，受傷和入室行竊是每一位家長(zhǎng)擔(dān)心的主要問(wèn)題。但是抱怨，不尊重的行為，發(fā)脾氣，打架，睡眠不足的問(wèn)題才是真正困擾我們的。

3. Being apathetic 3. 心如死灰

So many people have seemingly given up on ever having the life they want. Life truly wears them down and out and there is nothing but a shell of a person left. This is unbelievably sad but all too common. These folks are just going through the motions of life without any real direction, passion, or interest. 如此多的人已經(jīng)放棄了過(guò)上自己想要的生活。生活令他們精疲力竭，徒剩一副軀殼。這是相當(dāng)可悲但同時(shí)又相當(dāng)普遍的情況。這些人只是毫無(wú)方向、毫無(wú)激情、毫無(wú)志趣的隨波逐流著。

4. Being ordinary 4. 平庸無(wú)為

The world needs more leaders, out of the box thinkers, action seekers, risk takers, and passionate people. What the world does not need is another average Joe living paycheck to paycheck. 這個(gè)世界需要更多的領(lǐng)導(dǎo)、能夠跳出固定思維的人、探索者、敢冒風(fēng)險(xiǎn)的人以及充滿(mǎn)激情的人。不需要另一個(gè)沉迷于從薪水到薪水的世俗的人。

5. No direction 5. 毫無(wú)方向

With no goals or dreams, how can we expect to achieve anything significant? Dream big and get big results. Dream small and get small results. Dont dream at all and get nothing. 沒(méi)有目標(biāo)， 沒(méi)有夢(mèng)想，我們?cè)趺茨艹删痛髽I(yè)?有小夢(mèng)想就會(huì)有小成就。沒(méi)有夢(mèng)想就什么也得不到。

6. Not having passion for something 6. 缺乏激情

When someone can find their real passion in life, that should be a momentousness event for them. Many people will go through their whole life without ever realizing what it is that gets their heart pumping, mind racing. 當(dāng)一個(gè)人發(fā)現(xiàn)生活中真正的激情時(shí)，那一刻堪稱(chēng)生命的里程碑。大多數(shù)人終其一生都不明白什么能讓他們心跳加速、大腦飛轉(zhuǎn)。

7. Being selfish 7. 自我中心

Giving something of yourself without the desire for anything in return is one of the most beautiful things in the world. Our society has taught us a what do I get out of this mentality which is breeding a generation of takers. What we need more of is people who truly understand the power behind selflessness. 世界上最美好的存在之一是付出而不求回報(bào)。這個(gè)社會(huì)總是讓我們關(guān)心我能得到什么，于是我們變成了索取的一代。我們更需要那些能夠真正懂得無(wú)私的偉大力量的人。

8. Not having a release 8. 不會(huì)放松

With the constant stresses life places on us, we all need a release. Finding a hobby, activity, or interest can be a life saver. Take up tennis, join a local business group, or learn another language. Without a release, life will almost assuredly bring you down. 在生活給于的持久壓力下，我們都需要放松。發(fā)現(xiàn)一個(gè)愛(ài)好，活動(dòng)或興趣可以成為我們生活中的救生圈。打打網(wǎng)球，參加一個(gè)當(dāng)?shù)氐纳虡I(yè)組織，或者學(xué)一門(mén)外語(yǔ)。缺少了放松，生活必定是令人失望的。

9. Not bettering yourself 9. 不會(huì)自我提升

Life is about growing, learning, and being a better person. Never trying to improve yourself is a guaranteed path to living a completely average life. Can anyone honestly say they want an average life? Of course not. 生活就是不斷成長(zhǎng)，學(xué)習(xí)，完善自我的過(guò)程。從不努力提升自我是通往平庸生活的必經(jīng)之路。說(shuō)實(shí)話(huà)，有誰(shuí)愿意過(guò)平庸的生活呢?當(dāng)然沒(méi)有。

10. Being empty inside 10. 內(nèi)心空虛

If you are walking around feeling like there is something missing in your life, you are far from being alone. Sadly, many people will spend their lives feeling this way. Some fill this void with religion, some fill it by having children, and some even fill it with drugs or alcohol. 如果你走來(lái)走去總會(huì)覺(jué)得生活中少了點(diǎn)什么，那么你就離孤獨(dú)還遠(yuǎn)。不幸的是，很多人終其一生都有這種感覺(jué)。有人用宗教來(lái)彌補(bǔ)這種空虛，有人用孩子，還有的甚至用毒品和酒精。

1. Our miserable, detestable, deplorable jobs 1. 可憐可憎可悲的工作

If you love your job, great news. If youre like the other 95% of the population, then it sucks. Our jobs, although we may only be there for 40 hours a week, can feel like a life without parole prison sentence. Like with prison, we feel trapped, hopeless, and doomed to a life we dont want. 假如你熱愛(ài)你的工作，那么恭喜你。如果你和95%的人們一樣，那么糟透了。我們或許一周只花40個(gè)小時(shí)工作，但感覺(jué)上卻像是被判了無(wú)期徒刑。就像蹲監(jiān)獄一樣，我們覺(jué)得受束縛，絕望，注定要過(guò)一輩子我們不想要的生活。

2. Family stress 2. 家庭壓力

Having children is a true blessing and is the most wonderful thing in the world, but can also be and usually is the cause of an enormous amount of stress. Kidnapping, pedophiles, traffic accidents, injuries, and home invasions are all major concerns for any parent, but its the whining, disrespectful behavior, tantrums, hitting, and lack of sleep that really gets to us. 擁有孩子是真正的恩典，是世界上最美好的事情，但同時(shí)也可能成為并且通常是源源不斷地壓力的根源。綁架，戀童癖者，交通事故，受傷和入室行竊是每一位家長(zhǎng)擔(dān)心的主要問(wèn)題。但是抱怨，不尊重的行為，發(fā)脾氣，打架，睡眠不足的問(wèn)題才是真正困擾我們的。

3. Being apathetic 3. 心如死灰

So many people have seemingly given up on ever having the life they want. Life truly wears them down and out and there is nothing but a shell of a person left. This is unbelievably sad but all too common. These folks are just going through the motions of life without any real direction, passion, or interest. 如此多的人已經(jīng)放棄了過(guò)上自己想要的生活。生活令他們精疲力竭，徒剩一副軀殼。這是相當(dāng)可悲但同時(shí)又相當(dāng)普遍的情況。這些人只是毫無(wú)方向、毫無(wú)激情、毫無(wú)志趣的隨波逐流著。

4. Being ordinary 4. 平庸無(wú)為

The world needs more leaders, out of the box thinkers, action seekers, risk takers, and passionate people. What the world does not need is another average Joe living paycheck to paycheck. 這個(gè)世界需要更多的領(lǐng)導(dǎo)、能夠跳出固定思維的人、探索者、敢冒風(fēng)險(xiǎn)的人以及充滿(mǎn)激情的人。不需要另一個(gè)沉迷于從薪水到薪水的世俗的人。

5. No direction 5. 毫無(wú)方向

With no goals or dreams, how can we expect to achieve anything significant? Dream big and get big results. Dream small and get small results. Dont dream at all and get nothing. 沒(méi)有目標(biāo)， 沒(méi)有夢(mèng)想，我們?cè)趺茨艹删痛髽I(yè)?有小夢(mèng)想就會(huì)有小成就。沒(méi)有夢(mèng)想就什么也得不到。

6. Not having passion for something 6. 缺乏激情

When someone can find their real passion in life, that should be a momentousness event for them. Many people will go through their whole life without ever realizing what it is that gets their heart pumping, mind racing. 當(dāng)一個(gè)人發(fā)現(xiàn)生活中真正的激情時(shí)，那一刻堪稱(chēng)生命的里程碑。大多數(shù)人終其一生都不明白什么能讓他們心跳加速、大腦飛轉(zhuǎn)。

7. Being selfish 7. 自我中心

Giving something of yourself without the desire for anything in return is one of the most beautiful things in the world. Our society has taught us a what do I get out of this mentality which is breeding a generation of takers. What we need more of is people who truly understand the power behind selflessness. 世界上最美好的存在之一是付出而不求回報(bào)。這個(gè)社會(huì)總是讓我們關(guān)心我能得到什么，于是我們變成了索取的一代。我們更需要那些能夠真正懂得無(wú)私的偉大力量的人。

8. Not having a release 8. 不會(huì)放松

With the constant stresses life places on us, we all need a release. Finding a hobby, activity, or interest can be a life saver. Take up tennis, join a local business group, or learn another language. Without a release, life will almost assuredly bring you down. 在生活給于的持久壓力下，我們都需要放松。發(fā)現(xiàn)一個(gè)愛(ài)好，活動(dòng)或興趣可以成為我們生活中的救生圈。打打網(wǎng)球，參加一個(gè)當(dāng)?shù)氐纳虡I(yè)組織，或者學(xué)一門(mén)外語(yǔ)。缺少了放松，生活必定是令人失望的。

9. Not bettering yourself 9. 不會(huì)自我提升

Life is about growing, learning, and being a better person. Never trying to improve yourself is a guaranteed path to living a completely average life. Can anyone honestly say they want an average life? Of course not. 生活就是不斷成長(zhǎng)，學(xué)習(xí)，完善自我的過(guò)程。從不努力提升自我是通往平庸生活的必經(jīng)之路。說(shuō)實(shí)話(huà)，有誰(shuí)愿意過(guò)平庸的生活呢?當(dāng)然沒(méi)有。

10. Being empty inside 10. 內(nèi)心空虛

If you are walking around feeling like there is something missing in your life, you are far from being alone. Sadly, many people will spend their lives feeling this way. Some fill this void with religion, some fill it by having children, and some even fill it with drugs or alcohol. 如果你走來(lái)走去總會(huì)覺(jué)得生活中少了點(diǎn)什么，那么你就離孤獨(dú)還遠(yuǎn)。不幸的是，很多人終其一生都有這種感覺(jué)。有人用宗教來(lái)彌補(bǔ)這種空虛，有人用孩子，還有的甚至用毒品和酒精。